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Originally Posted by niceguy
If you truly believe in your heart two people are meant to be together- despite the odds and hurdles in the way, when is it time to move on for good?
I always believed in my heart there is just one person for me, but what can you do if you start to question if that's right?
Any thoughts? Who here still believes that love conquers all and that more importantly, if you truly love someone you should never give up on them (Despite any flaws)?
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Such a complex range of questions, but I'll bite. I am more into the notion of there's people in our lives for a 'season, reason, lifetime.'
I don't believe, that we entirely give up on people, but reach a point where it's either healthy or unhealthy to progress forward. I will only leave, when I can no longer stay, is a decent philosophical mindset.
There needs to be a sense of realism and logic, even when it comes to matters of the heart. Loving someone, needn't be so painful. Love, imo, isn't meant to hurt. When, you mention, love conquers all and never giving up, is it the person that is evoking love, or the ideology of the relationship, as a whole.
Perhaps, if the part about this question, is about whether one can continue to love them, well, if it causes one to stop loving oneself, then it stands to reason one is not loving the other, and perhaps the person isn't a lifetime, but a season or a reason.
Yes, we can love and accept another's flaws, but if the relationship isn't at a functioning level, then at what cost to your own esteem and worth is holding onto the 'promise'?