yes it is possible. I'm getting married probably in the next few weeks because of health benefits but we have been engaged for awhile anyways. Before being with him I never thought I would get married or be able to be happy. It takes time and hard work- on both parts- to make the relationship work. He knows about my BPD and bipolar and comes to counseling with me...reads books about it..and always tries to talk to me. Our communication skills have really grown and I think that is what makes our relationship to great is that we can talk to each other.