Your therapist sounds pretty wise. You don't have to make a decision yet, and if talking about it to your family and friends brings on judgement from them or they try to influence your decision and feelings, then it probably isn't constructive to talk to them about it. That's what is good about a place like this site - you can talk to us as much as you need to and are comfortable with, and we can be a more neutral sounding board for you, since we have no vested interest in your decision.

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