My father is like this, he talks at me and tries to push all my buttons, the entire time I am with him he does it, he's done it since I was a child. His mental and verbal abuse pushed me into the "arms" of older men. I have already forgiven my abusers, but my dad seems to be a lot harder. Kind of hard to forgive when he doesn't even see how mean and dickish he is and he brushes me off with some kind of excuse. They drive me insane.