We have to realize that people are flawed as human beings and be willing to forgive imperfections and mistakes. Otherwise we're dooming ourselves for a lifetime of mistrust and and disappointment. Everything can't be a deal-breaker or there will never be any lasting deals. It is difficult to learn to forgive and repair and move on rather than react and break off and run away, but at some point we have to be willing to step up and say that the whole of a relationship is most often worth saving, and capable of being saved, if we can make ourselves slow down and step back and see the whole picture rather than focusing only on the imperfections.

If I refused to forgive and see past and move on, I'd be a pretty lonely person. There have been VERY few irrepairable relationships in my life. Most people are worth giving that second look.