My diagnosis is actually bipolar, anxiety, with traits of bpd. But I believe I have more then traits and not bipolar. Some of the symptoms I found out when I really examined myself were putting everything into a relationship (almost to a point of obsession) and then I push them away, extreme mood swings, breaking up with partners before they can hurt me and then regretting it, low self esteem and self image,, anger, distructive behavior, and feeling all over the place with my emotions. Everyone is different. I hope I helped some for you.