I've told my T quite a bit, but still not all. I never was really able to tell a former counselor any of the story. She was very much "here and now" and I didn't feel she welcomed information from my past. I also tried to tell my husband a bit and piece here and there early in our marriage, but he was very much rejecting of this information and didn't want to hear, and in fact said things that made me feel it was all my fault. So I learned quickly not to push this information about myself on him. It has been really helpful to deal with this with my T. I still have more work to do and am not sure I would ever really tell other people.