I've been married 18 years and raised 2 kids, both of them are bipolar as well. My husband has been strong enough to put up with us.. He has always been there for me at my worst and for the kids too. I live in fear that one day he will wake up and decide he's had enough. The kids are both out on their own so its just me and him now. I hope that we are in that 10% because I love him more than anything and Im still "in love" with him !