I've done online dating and dating before online such as dating services and the old placing an ad in the newspaper. I was unsuccessful at everyone of those. On line dating was a complete joke for me. I didn't like every woman that I went out with. I got dates with them because they answered my ad. When I picked women out that I thought that I would like, they never answered back. So when the women answered my ad, there were not many that I liked from the start, but I thought that I would give them a chance.

Well, I gave them a chance and asked them for a second date. Asking them for a second date was a "benefit of the doubt" for me. But I did it anyways and they turned me down.

I would highly not recommend on line dating. There are just too many phonies on them. You could be going out with someone that's married and not know it. Also there had been cases where men got dates and then the women would led them to thugs waiting for the man to rob him. Another is that in the area where live recently, two women had been raped and murdered when they met men on Christian Mingle.

So be careful!