In everything we are responsible for what we do and we cannot make the other person do anything for us, only ask. What we can do is make efforts to 1. learn the other person's language and try to give them via that language, love. 2. from knowing their language, try to perceive how they are showing love in their way and accept it as it is. Feeling loved is not something that is completely out of our own control. If you knwo how your partner shows love and they are doing so, does it really matter that it is not in YOUR way? Really is that showing love to the other person by telling them how to love you? I think not. But.. hopefully you can find a partner that does the same things as a above, in finding out your language and giving it to you that way....

There is far too much thinking about how we are all feeling dissatisfied, unloved and unfulfilled in this world and not enough going out of our way to give love unconditionally.