Oh boy...I am going to go along with the no contact for now. It is obvious she will always find a reason to call me. Today while I was out she left a message that she was very worried about me because I sounded so stressed out on the phone two days ago, and she wanted to make sure I was ok. &*^%$#@! I don't need a mother, already have one. Thats another thing I have told her when she tried to act like my mother. I know there have been times where I was mean or very direct over the phone and she still calls, for some reason she doesn't care. I am curious what kind of problem she has, what is the name for the illness where she has to be so dependent on other people.?? Thanks I will see if silence is worth a thousand words.