As far as I am concerned. Everyone makes their own choices. What you do always has some form of consequence to it. But myself personally what society sees as "normal" is a load of Bull, everyone is normal, meaning they where made that way because that is how they where meant to be. Just because one person suffers from depression and "normal" society doesn't, does not make them "crazy, etc" What most theropiest and even psychologist do is label someone "crazy" because they have no clue as to who that patient really is. Ironically, my husband is a trained psychologist, but is a very unusual one. His teacher actually told him that if he ever became a psychologist he would quit teaching.
For example, you say you want to kill yourself, he will not sit there and "baby" you. He will look at you and tell you either "If you were actually going to do that, you wouldn't have said a word to anyone, you are actually crying out for help just by saying it"
So after he says that he will actually listen to what your problems are, but he is not going to sit there and sugar coat everything. He is going to tell you how he sees it and if you take it the wrong way, well that's on you. But in the year and half being married to him, I would rather deal with a psychologist/counselor like that then ones that just sit there and talk ********, just because they want money.
But unfortunately he does not work in the field even though he graduated for it, because he doesn't like the way that most of them do things and if he were to even work as one, they most likely would not keep him for the fact that he doesn't "play by there rules" so to speak. So he picked up truck driving.