Just to clarify, I would NEVER contact his doctor without his permission and without cause. He started talking about ending up dead, so that's why I considered getting his permission to email his doctor. I didn't even talk to his mom without his permission. I understand that that would be a huge breach of trust and would make him resentful. Sorry I didn't make that clear.

And I didn't mean hostile in an angry, violent way. I meant antagonistic and not his usual friendly, lovely self.

I totally realize three months isn't very long and I keep that in mind. If people connect I don't think the length of time they've been together really matters. It will hurt to say goodbye regardless of length of our relationship.

Thanks for everyone's opinions and help!