I don't know if any of you can help me or not. Here is the situation/question:

I am divorced....I am in love with a man whose wife passed away last
year after a 2 1/2 year battle with breast cancer. She died on July 17,
2002.

I know that this man loves me and he wants to marry me. I want to
marry him but here is the problem.....he hasn't gotten rid of any of his
wife's personal belongings..clothing, pocketbooks, shoes, jewelery, etc.
I feel he hasn't moved beyond his wife and am afraid that I'd be
marrying a man that is still clinging to the memory of his wife. Please give
me your thoughts on this. I'm feeling desperate for guidance. Thank
you in advance. Pat