I'm glad you didn't sign the forms it's not her job to monitor you so much as to help you accomplish things that you would like to. Maybe it would work better if you had some sort a agenda yourself? With me and my T we would first thing in the session discuss a series of topics we would like to get to today...you know whatever was bothering you...so you might say my dad is working a lot so I'm lonely what do you suggest? I don't get the sense that you guys have any goals at all. I know people have different therapeutic specialties but she's acting more like a spy than a T which totally undermines the therapeutic relationship. I understand you might not be able to change therapists but perhaps you can work on improving the interaction by setting up some ground rules for her role in your life...ie she is not involved in med management or global assessment of anything....