No one is perfect, Ready, but you ARE awesome and amazing. I understand your kids did not hear this particular thing, but they DO see things like him fixing food for everyone except you. They see the silent treatment he subjects you to in order to get his way. They see and absorb this kind of thing. I wish you could give them a clear and unambiguous message that behavior like your H's is reprehensible and will not lead them to happy relationships in life. EVERYONE deserves respect, even when the person is not perfect and/or makes mistakes.