The question I have for you is, why would you want someone in your life who perpetrates this behavior?
Wow, I mean Wow!
My experience with Ns is that, if they're flaming Ns, they are so highly defended that they will not only not listen to you but they will blame and hate you for even approaching the subject of N.
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Originally Posted by Metalsauce
• She thinks that psychology is a crock of lies
• She expects everyone to give to her and gives nothing in return
• She gets quite upset when her demands aren't met, even if there's a good reason they haven't been
• She always tried to maintain the facade of having a normal home life
• She made me feel guilty for telling anyone about he abuse I suffered
• She never acknowledged me emotionally, but placed the burden of her emotions on me
• She is constantly paranoid that people are talking about her behind her back
• She claims to not remember abusing me, and has gotten my younger siblings to go along with it
• I was never allowed to contradict anything she said
• She believes she has a way with people, even though the vast majority of people she meets dislike her after a while
• When people started to dislike her, she would always blame me
• She talked about me behind my back to my friends, and shared highly personal things about me with them
• She has guilted me out of at least a thousand dollars
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