I've been T-less for over a month. The psychologist who's supposed to refer me to a new therapist called me 3.5 weeks ago and told me she wanted to discuss my case with her colleagues and then get back to me within a week of our phone call. I emailed her two weeks later since I had not heard from her. She answered the email a week later (so three weeks after the phone call) and told me she'd talk to her colleagues on Tuesday this week and then get back to me. I think that's quite weird since the reason she said she was going to get back to me about a week after the phone call was that she'd talk to her colleagues. Now it had been three weeks and she had not yet talked to them. When I got the email on Monday this week I honestly didn't know whether to laugh or cry.

Also, now, three days after she supposedly talked to her colleagues I still haven't heard from her. I don't know what's going on and I feel terrible (really depressed etc).

Question: how annoying and how much of a burden would I be if I emailed her again? I'm really anxious about it because I imagine she'll get really annoyed with me for putting some pressure on her. A friend of mine, who has noticed my depression getting even worse, is trying to make me send another email but I'm too scared and too tired of everything to do so.

Any thoughts?