I hear all of you. If it were ONLY this one site, I would maybe think there just wasn't much traffic. I'm on Facebook a lot, and I try to at least hit the Like button when it's appropriate, to let people know I read their post. It doesn't seem right to hit "Like" when they're posting something like, "My grandma passed away," but in that case I'll put something like "hugs" or "prayers" in the comment section.
But I can post the same thing here and on Facebook and maybe other places too, and not only are there no comments, but no likes or hugs or anything else to let me know people saw it. Here, I can see how many views something has had, but then if it's had a high number of views and no comments or likes, I think, "Well, I guess they didn't like it, then."
Now, how's this for a zinger.... Last night I was just about to confide in my husband how I felt unheard, and shoved aside, and I didn't even have a chance to get the words out of my mouth when he cut me off with, "Can this wait a minute?" Wow. Point proven, right there. And he could NOT figure out why that hurt me.
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