Okay I am starting to feel much better here...not so freakish. My T also has a confidential voicemail and I call his voicemail sometimes just to hear his voice which seems to calm me down sometimes. I actually told him one day that I did this and to apologize for the multiple hangups (oops) and he said that if it helped that he was happy and to continue to do so and he didn't care how many hangups were on his phone as long as it helped me in some way.