Soooo much emphasis is placed on how a person looks. I hear ppl mention having a pretty face but this to me means nothing...it doesn't take someone special to be good looking, you are just born that way! Anyway, even with the weight, you can still look 'attractive' to other ppl with sheer confidence! To me, someone that looks confident (not arrogant) is damn well sexy! It's all in your swagger! My only concern with the weight thing is your health. If it wasn't for your health, I would say really, WHO CARES!?!? But your health is important. For now though, concentrate on what makes YOU, you! You are still the same person you was when you was thin, you just look different now is all. PLEASE love yourself for who are, not what you look like. And your bf not having sex with you may have nothing to do with your weight. Please talk to him about it. If you can't talk, maybe write him a letter. The important thing here is you open a line of communication.

I am not going to tell you you are probably are pretty because I don't know that you are but my point here is, IT SHOULDN'T MATTER! The only thing you should worry about looking pretty is your character.