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Old Apr 11, 2014, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted by ginaaa22 View Post
its like reverse psychology. you want her because she doesnt want you anymore. I went through a similar situation and it made me absolutly INSANE. I was married to the guy and I left him after 5 years of him not working and being lazy and after that he started seeing another woman and I lost it. I begged him to come back to me...even though thats not what I truely wanted. I would call him all day everyday. Stalk him. Follow him places. Let him come over whenever he wanted. Buy him whatever he wanted. Finally I started distracting myself by talking to other guys to try and get over him...It finally worked. Hang in there. I know it can make you insane...things will get better.
I know it will be easier if i can just try to talk to another girl or open up my self for other girls, but ive tried and i feel empty. What is more to it cause i feel hope in the way she told me how she still want me and love me and she always text me in ever 2 or 3 days. Even tho i feels like its a false hope.

I was about to try to keep her there.. be happy and let her know im happy without her.. but i cant, cause everytime i try to even fake my happiness just to make her wanting me back or something.. just knowing shes over there makes me missing her and wishing her to talk to me and ill be back to sadness and missery again.. but i guess ill have to try harder this time.. atleast ive delete my account there.