I have to agree with all comments above and add a quick note...when my second ex-husband and I got together, we were in a world of trouble...both separated from awful spouses, struggling to find work and nearly homeless. He was 'everything' to me...my rock, my salvation, you name the cliche' he fit it. And I was equally his. We were passionate beyond belief, worked wonderfully together (found employment together) and after nearly 3 years we finally had a home, good jobs, security.

And the moment we weren't actively involved saving each other, the love just...died. I started to look ... really look at him. He was still handsome but suddenly I was no longer physically attracted to him; he was annoying, stubborn, opinionated...we had NOTHING in common. It was just about keeping each other from drowning in all the drama of our lives...and once that was successful, there was nothing left.

We 'broke up' soon after, but remained friends, of a sort. It does happen that when a relationship is dependant on a specific that doesn't necessarily include mutual, fully nurtured and complete 'love'...that a person can find themselves no longer 'in love'. It sounds like you've reached this place.

I wish you well.