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Talulah said:
Hi Rhap, before I know how to answer you because this is a tough one, can I also ask, are there any "unnerving" qualities you wish to deal with, with this alter?

Or are their traits in this alter you would not like?

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YES...... the are some unnerving qualities that I would like to work on concerning this alter......

1.) She hates a lot of the people that I have forgiven and decided to love again -

Prime Example: My husband of 20 years....

2.) She is always opposite of me - in any thing I personally want to do in life.... which makes it hard to enjoy the life I want (let alone have a life) if she does not want the same things as I do.

Prime Example: I volunteered to help out with potbelly pigs (that were abandoned, abused or rejected by their owners) 1x a week - and she does not like leaving the house, therefore, I don't think I will get to go.

3.) She very much dislikes MEN (due to past sexual abuse) - and I am trying to not judge all by a mere few.

4.) I want to work - shoe dos not - due to fear of people (especially young beautiful females) - that which we no longer are.

5.) I am Christian - she is not or does not care or has doubts..... she often fights me on my morals and values.... the standards I try to live my life by every day (physically & visually).

..... I guess that is a good list to start on - then we will see what comes to the surface.