I used to be obsessed with how much I hated the way I looked. I don't know how to be happy with my own appearance, but I've learned to stop caring, and that helps. The way you look is something you can only change to an extent. Sure, I could lose weight, or wear makeup, or change my hair, etc. but it won't really change much. So, I just don't care. I don't care if people think I'm ugly, or pretty because I can't change that. I just wake up every day and try to make myself look the best I can. I put on clothes that make me feel good, and put on some makeup, and get on with my day.