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Old Apr 11, 2014, 08:52 PM
Scott Schneider Scott Schneider is offline
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Okay - hmmmm - anything is possible - and I see him as possibly being narcissitc and having a cultic feel to himself - why others follow this i don't know and just reading other stuff from REBT tonight and its "moral relativism" there are case studies with the author who is practicing REBT telling a woman who committed infidelity that she definitely did wrong by "her moral system" and that because it's something that keeps her from learning from her mistake, she needs to choose to go by her values and make a decision that is right for her, not because it hurt her husband at all or her relationship with her husband but because it was the right choice for her - not feel guilt because she did anything wrong - because guilt takes away her ability to learn from the mistake. Then - on top of that the therapist tells her regarding guilt, "LOts of people do wrong things and don't feel about them."