Thank you both for the reply.
Alison, have tried to see his point of view,gave him everything I had and created what I could.what makes me reluctant to try again is fear of rejection ,mistrust towards me,frequent expression of my inadequacy according to him.The question is how to overcome my feelings ,when he doesn't want to accept any responsibility of the current marriage condition,convinced that it is my problem and my behavior which is inappropriate ,since I don't think and react like him.I never brought up counseling with him as his temperament would not allow that