I was certainly harder on my looks when I was younger. I'm not sure if that is what you mean. You could spend an hour with a voice coach. They are paid to be completely honest. And maybe it is about finding how you want to express yourself. Juana Molina was getting nowhere with straight singing so she made her voice into a sound instrument with no language. Or maybe it is the pitch. There is a condition in which people are attracted to certain sounds like whispers on YouTube. It sounds funky but it is very interesting.

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