I don't think he's necessarily a narcissist, there were times when I felt like there was genuine emotion from him but he's definitely got some traits.

I find it rather disturbing though that it took someone like that to break through my own issues. Is that all that's in store for me? I need someone who will treat me badly? Am I really so used to being treated badly that that is the only thing that can reach me?

I know I've said at times not to be nice to me because I'm not used to it and it makes me uncomfortable but that is ridiculous!