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Originally Posted by Lycanthrope
Are you sure your wife doesn't find you attractive or are you just assuming this?
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- She never compliments me. She even stated in couples therapy that she was trying once but couldn't figure out what to say or even get it out.
- She constantly compliments and talks about how great this guy or that guy looks.
- Even after 15 years, she still recoils when I touch her hand or leg or grab her playfully in a bear hug.
- She has stated that I don't give her anything that she can compliment me on.
The list goes on and on. I know I'm not attractive, I've been told this plenty of times ... Five times right off the top of my head by other people.
I used to be a good man, one that did what was right and honorable no matter how bad the consequences would be for standing up for myself and others. That's why she married me. But after 15 years of negative feedback and losing jobs for remaining ethical, I'm just a shell. She never seemed physically attracted to me and now I don't even have the attractive character traits I once had.