I think it is hard and stressful enough having a WORNG () belief and attitude without getting raked over the coals. Teaching another person humility like we have all the "right" answers. . . not much different from what they're doing? When other people are at the extreme ends away from me, that's when I try to get most gentle and feel the most condescending (a trigger for me). What is "obvious" to us is obviously not obvious to the other person. That does not make them right/wrong, just not us.