Hey, but sometimes feeling good is good enough, hang the morality of how we get there

I had a coworker who was less well educated than I was and a guy so hadn't learned to spell :-) and it became one of my jobs to proofread his writing and fix his typos in our program! I complained bitterly that that was backwards, he should learn to spell but the boss (also a guy :-) didn't see it that way.