I disagree. Not everyone with bipolar is nice. SOme people are jerks naturally yes, that would of been their personality if they did not have bipolar but the fact is, is that he does have it and if anything it makes the jerk in him worse. Btw, mine changed his appearance in the beginning too! It has to be a bipolar trait! I never asked him to do, he took it upon himself to do it, and months later threw it in my face that he just did it for me and he doesnt even like it. WTF? After we ended things, he went back to how he looked and acted when I first met him. I'm just staying away for now. This is insane!