i am worried my son, who plays video games and watches tons of tv, is add like me. i don't know what motivates him, but he can zone out or chill in front of the tv for hours at his mother's place. he also has trouble getting some of his schoolwork in on time and this is a recurrent behavior. i would like him treated and learning to cope with it earlier than i did. this diagnosis is new to me and completely fits my ruined marriage, failed jobs and emotional upheaval. i don't want that for my son. how can i get my son to be evaluated without the stigma at his teen age?