I need some more advice. We decided to go out with some friends last night to see how it would go. The majority of the night was fine. When everyone decided to go home one of the new members of the group came back to our place and we talked. He is a tattoo artist and my wife wants a tattoo badly. Idk y she hasn't got one yet but he offered to do it for free. As she showed him where she wanted it and he explained things I noticed she changed the way she carried herself. I believe that had I not been there they would have had sex. Perhaps this is a result of being hurt and confused but throughout the night I experienced jealousy; I've never been jealous of her talking with other men. I'd imagine prior to this situation I was completely comfortable and trusted her completely. Now that's I've been ripped apart from the inside out I am not comfortable with that and I feel like I can't trust her now. We spent most of today moving into an apartment and that has gone well unless I try to discuss my feelings about our relationship and last night at which point she locks up and gets angry. At this point I feel like she has given up and has calculated it in her head (a rarity as she is normally so emotionally driven that she doesn't think clearly enough to conjure up this elaborate plan) to have me help her move into and get situated and comfortable in an apt before we split. Perhaps I'm so confused that I am just paranoid right now? Another complaint I have is that 90% of her answers to my queries are I don't know or so short that its obvious she is agitated and annoyed. We see a councilor on Monday but I'm terrified we are through and my job location leaves me here around her family with literally no one else except a guy I started working with 4 weeks ago. I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. I have no clue what to do or where to go. I have to practically beg for her attention, she is so obsessed with her phone currently and refuses to let me see it as she claims she is talking to her girl friends and doesn't want me to see their conversations. I get that I'd be annoyed too. However I don't want to see them for dirt or for the benefit of being nosey, I feel there could be answers on there to many of the questions I'm asking that could help me to make a decision. At this point as you can probably tell from the lack of organization and sentence structure in this post I'm lost ,frustrated, horny and don't have a clue where to go from here