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Old Apr 12, 2014, 08:10 PM
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Originally Posted by ToeJam View Post
What am I doing or saying wrong?

Been a prevailing silence to stuff I put down these days and it’s confusing me. Am I giving off some aura of attention seeking?

Genuinely asking… as I’m getting anxious each time I log on to check for a reply… not sure if it’s the way I write… that I’m not giving off the impression that I’m hoping for advice… some insight on how to proceed.

Bit sick of just flailing about in my head trying to find answers to my questions… but if it’s tiring for others, it might hurt, but I’d rather know than seeing nothing when I do actually elaborate.

I hope that doesn’t seem like a rant, accusation… or attack… I know, I really do, that others here are struggling, have their own problems, their own doubts and concerns… just tired and hurt by silence.

Sorry for any deluded expectations on my part... or lack of compassion, understanding or anything else that I'm currently just blind to
I understand this. There are times I want so much to get a response and...nothing. But then too I'm guilty of being unable to think of anything to say, especially when I'm feeling really down. I try to tell myself that's part of the reason for lack of responds, that others are having a hard time, but usually I go right to, what's wrong with me? Especially if I feel I poured my soul into a posting. But here no one can see me crying over a hard posting and unless I spell that out no one really knows how hard it was. I think we all have times when we get more sensitive, especially when we have nothing else to keep us distracted. Hang in there. I for one can relate to many of your postings.
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