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Originally Posted by littlemiss44
I think that sounds perfect. I would leave out the part about not calling cause she's late to meet up with you. I'd say I notice too that whenever we get together it doesn't seem like a priority to you cause you tend to be late alot. I know you have alot going on. Im just never sure if our plans are important to you and if yr going to show up. I really enjoy hanging out with you and our friendship is important to me. I hope you feel the same about me. I don't know...she does kinda sound jealous of you. You have what she doesn't. You seem to be a genuine person and a good friend. She's lucky to have you in her life. I think she does like drama. Because her two marriages failed she more than likely wants what you have hunny. You sound like someone who would be a great friend. Hec pm me and we can start to be friends. I'm a 44 year old female and I live in Oregon. Where do you live?
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Thanks for getting back to me once again! I really appreciate your advice! I'll go ahead and tell her that, but I do have to mention the issue with her not calling me when she's running more than 15 minutes late as that isn't cool. If I was running even ten minutes behind, I always let my friends know about that!
I feel if I don't make that clear, that she might keep up showing up late w/o calling! Hopefully she won't take things the wrong way tomorrow! Honestly, I'm a bit nervous about talking to her even though I think that she'll apologize and be understanding. It's very hard for me to make friends, so I try hard to keep the ones that I do have. Being shy and introverted is not a quality that most people like in their friends it seems like, ugh! Not to mention the depression and anxiety issue (which is under control most of the time now with meds).
Anyways, she never gave me to much of an impression over being jealous of me. If she is, then she sure hides it well. She has a lot going for her, so I should be the one jealous of her, lol! She makes a six figure salary, she's close to her dad and her daughter and granddaughter, and her current b.f treats her like a queen!
Like I said before, I've had issues with my husband for years, but things are a bit better now. I'm financially independent on him and we live in a fixer upper and are not rich, we have a few thousand dollars worth of debt, I drive a 10 year old car, so what is there to really be jealous of? Ugh! Jealousy is so stupid! If my friends were happy and had a better life then me, I'd be happy for them, not jealous!
She has no reason to really be jealous of me since she has a great boss who's nice to her who takes her out to dinner once in awhile, and a few good friends who she has either known from work or who has known her for years. Her awful past is behind her. Also, those two ex husbands cheated on her and she's been a single mom since she was 18 I think. Neither of them paid child support, she so did have it rough when she was younger as she had to raise two kids on her own and work two jobs to support them. So she did miss out on her youth.
The only thing that isn't so great in her life is that she lives with a roommate that is an immature slob who tends to verbally abuse her and hog the bathroom. She told me that she can't get rid of him that easily since she needs to buy him out of the house, but other than that, she has nothing to really be jealous about. She loves her job although it can be hard and stressful. Also, she is loosing weight, so she's probably my size or thinner by now. I'll find out tomorrow.
As for me, I am a nice and genuine person who'd be a good friend to anyone that I deem worthy of my time and friendship. Thanks for the kind words-
I treat my friends well and I'm always there for them. All I ask for in return is to be treated with the same respect, kindness, consideration, and loyalty in return. I'm good at listening and keeping secrets.
I'm also open minded and fairly non-judgmental. I'm also a sensitive and empathetic person. Sometimes I wonder if I'm too sensitive. I'm not always the best judge of character and I can be to trusting and naive at times which is embarrassing to admit at my age! I'm 41 & I live in N. Ca. I'd love to be friends! You sound like a nice and genuine person too-
I'll PM you soon and let you know how things went. Wish me luck! Feel free to PM me too!