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Originally Posted by curley
I think it is always nice to develop relationships, and it is nice to have friends or dates to spend a little time with and get your mind off your studies occasionally. If you want to date then go for out but do not worry about what is going to happen when you graduate or if you move etc.
If you are in therapy there is a reason you are there. You will not forget any of the tools or the information you learn about yourself in your sessions. Do not quit your therapy.
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Upon thinking about this further, I almost never develop relationships anyway. And dates are such rare occurrences that I usually doubt I'm even on one. At least until they stop talking to me—then I realize it must have been a date and apparently they want nothing to do with me whatsoever.
It was a mistake to start this thread in the first place, I'm afraid…but the thought of adding endless amounts of stress to already crippling loneliness isn't going to be a pretty sight. And what makes it worse is that everywhere I look, everyone has friendships/relationships etc. and don't seem to have this problem, which makes me even more alone. And even more of an outcast among outcasts.