((((((((((((((((((candybear))))))))))))))))))))))) Unfortunately some people just don't seem to understand how hurtful they can be; even if inadvertantly. One thing you may want to consider is when you feel you are not being treated fairly is to calmly explain to that person how you don't deserve to be treated like that. I know it is very difficult and maybe you could work with your t so you will be better prepared next time. It sounds like your friend didn't realize how she was coming across until later. I hope you begin to see what a wonderful person you are and that you do not deserve to be treated badly by anyone. Please take care and stay safe.

Bear hugs,

BB