There are apartment hotels here where there is a kitchenette with a stove/microwave and a fridge... I think normal hotel rooms have a fridge for a minibar, but not a microwave. I seldom stay at hotels in Sweden so I don't really know. (I'm getting pretty knowledgeable about British hotels though - at least the hotels used for the kinds of events I attend there.)

I'm really, really down right now. I'm slipping, sliding, sinking. Nothing matters, nothing is fun or interesting, and I don't like myself much either. Last week was so hard. I saw T twice and that was all right but I don't know how I'm going to make it through this week. I also asked a friend for support early last week, and received it, though he was a bit brutal. Also partially clueless, in that he suggested that I should try to talk to a woman, in Swedish, about some of my stuff. But I know that it's hard to give advice that's to the point all the time.