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I wasted a lot of time. My husband and I continued to lose respect for each other....in the "hope" that things would get better. Maybe if we would have just recognized - maybe through counseling - that it was not going to work - we would have not been so destructive to one another. I received counceling - he did not - he wanted just me to go. Resentment does not usually just disappear one day. I do not regret being married to him. I regret that I did not have the guts to get out for my own sake as well as his. Does not always have to be a divorce but it will not get better by itself
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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