Hi Mast, I think it's just quiet and nothing to do with you. I also think that you might not find that you are as strange as you think if you were to talk to another women (depending on which woman you chose to speak to). From reading, you and Stopdog seem to have similar takes on relationships, for instance. Your ideas about relationships are not what I would want for myself (and I'm sure you feel the same way when I talk about what I want), but that doesn't mean I think of you as alien somehow.