Do you have a T you can talk about this with? He sounds quite emotionally abusive. You might try calling a domestic abuse hotline and talking to them about his behaviors and find out.
If going abroad is something you desire to do do not let someone else's behavior control your life. If anyone is selfish it is he. You need to do want is best for you.
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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