So I am in University in another province and was planning on staying up here for the summer (working etc) and we have to pay a morgage for the summer anyways so it would be dumb for me to live elsewhere right? Well tonight i got a call from my mom and she said that her and my dad "decided" that i was coming home, and pretty much that i had no say in it because as of right now i don't have a job so they are "paying for me". I am so incredibly upset right now its not even funny .. i do NOT have a good home life, no support system, all my friends live around the area i am in now, and i'm going to have to be there for 4 whole months. No T, no friends, no life, just me and my "family" if you can even call it that.

Also, after my mom called me (i was pretty upset) she went behind my back and called my cousin (whom i'm really close with, but she doens't speak to) and tried to get her to tell her things that we talk about etc etc. I'm so incredibly upset that she did this and tried to get information from her - even if she was trying to "understand" me .. she only does it when its conveniant for her, and to gain power over me. I jsut dont even know what to do right now.

I can't go home. I dont know what i will do if i have to ... and i dont know how i'm going to get through everything. What do I do?? How can i persuade her to let me live here? - Can i also just mention that if i get a job here that means that i will also have a job for next year as well, where if i go home i'll have to start all over again in September. She doesn't make any sense ... I can't do this.