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I think something to remember is, that someone in a position of "authority" is not alway mentally well...but we learned to respect authority. What I learned over time is I will be professional to a person that has authority...but I can not respect authority unless they earned it...and that goes both ways..they need to respect you as well!
When you apply for jobs...it's not just about them interviewing you...interview the employer. That job I took was only to get some relief. I did learn a lot and had a wonderful co-worker who knew I was not feeling well but treating me great and I gained additional skills because of her kindness. You can only change yourself or fire your boss.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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