I am sorry to hear you are struggling with these things. It can be hard. It is possible to have money and not let anyone know about, so it does not become an issue. People to get to know you and it not being about the money or MH issues. Isolation does not always have to stay that way; getting out to try new things, finding a hobby, taking a class, getting involved in a group, or church. There are things that one can do that helps break the tendency of staying isolated and to meet new people with common interests and can lead to romantic interests and dating. I hope you find something that might interest you to try new to get out there. Wishing the best as you move forward, one step at a time. Good luck!