He's a psychiatrist, does he know how you feel. I could be wrong but being bi-polar does not mean you are insensitive to others feelings. It sounds like you want out. If that's what you want then you need to figure that out. You both should have a decent life. Do not stay if you do not want him..maybe someone else will except him as is. Maybe you need someone more stable - he may never be. If he is not open to working on the marriage, your needs and to understand that you are unhappy - then you decide what to do. I'm sure you care for him and I'm sure it's difficult for you. But do not sacrifice on daily basis - I would like to think he would not want that either.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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