Jeff,

I think the important thing is that you arrive at revelations, and have the courage to make changes. I don't think the time to get there is as important, just that you do get to new junctures in your thinking.

I recently showed someone, who had called herself my friend for maybe three years, to the door. She was a terrific bragger -- basically bragged all the time. After she really out-did herself in this regard, I finally said I don't need this. I've been a little lonelier, but a LOT happier -- so I know it is a good decision.

Thanks for sharing.

EJ