OP, You seem to be paranoid about people noticing and judging you for this so you have built up resentment about it. I understand how it feels to not like things about yourself but other's don't notice or care as much as you think they might. As much as it bothers you it is considered a normal feature. If anyone has ever called you on thinning hair it has less to do with you and more to do with their own issues. There are plenty of attractive men with thinning hair and if you keep it shorter, it will defiantly be less noticable.