Thank you, Sunrise. You're exactly right. I am so afraid of rejection that I want to be with him more than once per week, but I didn't even give him a chance to comment on it. And like you said-- I don't even have time to be there twice per week-- I think it has to do with the whole object constancy thing-- I need to be there just to make sure he's still there. Once again, I can compare this to my relationship with my husband. I will go places with him that I really, really don't feel like going to, or go about things in a really inconvenient way just to make sure that he's not gone. Just like T.